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The Power of Perspective

  
  
  
  
  

inspirational speaker4 AM is usually when the cab picks me up to go to the airport to fly out and give another motivational talk.

On this trip, I am away for nearly two weeks. As the cab pulls away from the curb, I am going through my list in my head- did I bring my passport? Shoes? Books?

Caught up in worry about the details of the trip, I whistfully comment to the cab driver that I will miss my son. He laughs as he tells me his story.

Baccoo moved to canada from Nigeria 3 months ago. His wife had a baby less than a week ago. He cannot afford to fly home to be with his daughter and wife but sends them money every week.

Wow, that gave me some perspective. While I am concerned about being away from my son for 10 days, he says he may not see his daughter until she is 18.

Baccoo has embarked on an incedible journey, moving across the world to a strange city where he knows nobody, with the hope of building a better future for his family.  I imagine him working everyday longing for his family.

I mentioned Baccoo during my motivational talk, where many delegates suggested they know of others who are displaced, struggling and far from their families.

Major life events have a way of waking us up and giving us a new perspective. Just ask Baccoo.

Inspirational speaker, Charles dickson once said,  these are the best of times and worst of times. It all depends on your perspective.

Even in the worst of times.

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Comments

Judy your story this week reminds me of a similar perspective I gained many years ago as a new nurse. I had moved 3000 kms from home and it was going to be my first Christmas away from my family. Presents had been mailed to me to arrive in time for Christmas but each day I went to the mailbox...no presents had arrived. I was feeling badly for myself that I would have no presents from home under my tree. On Christmas Eve I was working on the pediatric ward and caring for a young couple and their infant son who had arrived in the city from their home in another province, with all their belongings and their infant son in a backpack. The baby became sick with meningitis and was admitted to our ward. Very unexpectedly his condition worsened and he went into cardiac arrest and he died. As I watched them leaving the hospital room after this with all their belongings once again stashed in their backpacks...minus one very important one...suddenly not receiving my gifts from home was put into perspective pretty fast and no longer seemed so important to me. After my shift as I went home to my apartment...I looked and there was the parcel of gifts that had arrived from my family...their significance now paled by what I had experienced that day at work about what is truly important in life. 
 
 
 
Those kinds of stories have continued to play out for me in my 32 years as a pediatric nurse...giving me perspective many times.
Posted @ Wednesday, February 08, 2012 4:23 PM by Kate Mahon
Kate thank you so much for sharing this story. It makes me cry to hear they lost their son and again I feel so blessed to have a healthy family...there are hundreds of blessings every day we forget are even blessings at all. 
 
Thank you again
Posted @ Thursday, February 09, 2012 12:07 PM by Jody Urquhart
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